You suck!
I’m sorry!
I don’t know you personally, but I’m sure you suck. But to make you feel a bit better, I will share with you a secret: I suck as well.
Don’t worry, we all suck.
We are all addicted to the evil social media. We all possess a list of bad habits that make life miserable. We all pursue external validation. Plus, of course, we are all a victim of the procrastination habit.
Everyone online is trying to convince you that it’s all going to be all right and that things will eventually be OK.
But guess what?
Things often don’t work out the way you wanted or the way you planned. Why? Because you suck a lot of the time during the day.
For instance, last week I was angry at my girl because I wasn’t able to find my favorite black t-shirt. We had a fight. She won (like always). I felt miserable afterward for giving her a hard time. She told me that I suck. I didn’t agree at first but after a few hours, I understood she was right. I did suck.
Not that I want to be cynical, but we all need to hear the truth. A few thousand years ago, Lao Tzu said it himself:
“Truthful words are not beautiful; beautiful words are not truthful.” Lao Tzu
A lot of times our best friends won’t tell us that we did something wrong to avoid an argument. They think they’re protecting us. They don’t want to hurt our feelings.
But this approach is wrong in many ways.
Since I’m not your friend, yet, I can say whatever I want. And in this article, I will share with you the most common reasons why you and I suck.
Starting with the most common explanation:
You Suck Because You Don’t Know That You Suck
Sucking by not knowing that you suck is the most frequent reason a lot of people suck.
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